Are you in a situation that makes you unhappy? Have you tried everything to make it better but nothing’s worked? Are you staying because it seems too daunting to leave? We often think an unhealthy, unhappy situation only affects us. No, it’s affecting everyone around us. We’re teaching them THIS is what a relationship looks like. THIS is how people… Read more →
Do you compare yourself to others? As Dr. Phil asks, “How’s that working for you?” Comparison is a see-saw. It perpetuates a one up – one down dynamic. When we compare ourselves to others, we either feel inferior (people are better than us) or superior (we are better than other people). Neither feeling is healthy. We don’t want to feel… Read more →
As I interview people for my upcoming book, I’m saddened to hear how many are so overwhelmed by their many obligations, they have given up dreaming. This story of a young dad has stayed with me. He said, “I commute two hours a day and work in a job I hate to pay bills. We’ve got three kids under the… Read more →
I’m working on my next book SOMEDAY is Not a Day of the Week and writing the chapter about WHY people stay in unhappy jobs and relationships. This is the lead quote. “CHANGE can be scary. You know what’s scarier? REGRET.” What do you think? While on my Year by the Water, I interviewed people across the United States and… Read more →
Leo Tolstoy said, “Everyone thinks of changing the world. No one thinks of changing himself.” We can choose to disrupt this. All we have to do is GO FIRST. Every time we want someone or something to change, we set the precedent by altering the way we treat that person or approach that situation. Change begins at home.