“We don’t find our calling – we create it.” – Sam Horn, CEO of the INTRIGUE Agency
People talk about finding their calling … as if it exists out there somewhere, intact, and all they have to do is look long enough and EUREKA, there it will be, hiding behind a tree.
I think our calling – doing work we love that matters – emerges from doing and pursuing things that matter to us. It is a result of turning our passion into our profession and our joy into our job.
As former Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O’Conner said, “I’ve had a good life and it’s because I stayed busy doing things that mattered to me.”
Some people tell me they wish they could turn their joy into their job and do work they love.
I tell them, “Stop waiting and start creating. They often push back with, “I agree with that in theory, but HOW do I do it in practice?”
I share the backstory of how I got into this career when I didn’t even know it was a career. I am doing work I didn’t even know existed when I was in college. There was no major in this. No degree in it. No newspaper ads featuring this as a job description. There was no map, no instructions, no directions.
I just navigated my way to my ideal work/life by honoring The Four I’s – Instincts, Interests, Integrity, Lights on IN our Eyes – which are our Career Compass.
The work I’m doing is an accumulation of intuitive steps I took along the way. When I didn’t know what to do, I checked in with my Four I’s and they pointed me in the right direction.
Here’s what I mean. When I speak for organizations, people often come up afterwards and say some version of this: “It looks like you really enjoy what you do. I wish I could do work I loved. How’d you get started in this?”
Here’s how I got started creating my ideal career … and how you can too.
Years ago, I was reading The Washington Post and noticed that the word “concentration” was used six times on the front page of the sports section.
Tennis player Chris Evert said her ability to concentrate and stay focused despite the planes flying overhead was why she’d been able to win the U.S. Open.
A golfer who missed a gimme putt on a sudden death playoff hole said he’d lost his concentration because of the clicking cameras of nearby photographers.
A baseball manager blamed his team’s 7-game losing streak on the fact that players were thinking ahead to the playoffs instead of concentrating on that day’s game.
I was intrigued. (I’ve since come to understand that when we’re intrigued, opportunity is knocking on our heart.)
I thought, “We all wish we could concentrate better but no one ever teaches us how. Concentration is key to just about everything – success in business, relationships, sports and life – but I’ve never seen any books on this topic. I’ve never heard any speakers on this subject. And it matters.”
This topic interested me. I felt it was an important personal and professional skill that would benefit people, so it was in alignment with my integrity. And myinstincts were telling me there was a commercial need for this and people would pay to learn how to do it better.
So, I decided to do a deep dive into the topic of concentration, focus and flow. I interviewed athletes, artists, executives, inventors, entrepreneurs and “everyday people” to glean their insights and examples. Sample questions included:
1. How did you learn to concentrate?
2. What do you do to stay focused even when you’re busy, distracted or tired?
3. How do you motivate yourself to focus when you don’t feel like it?
4. How do you regain your concentration if you lose it?
5. Do you have any special techniques you use to set up flow and to s-t-r-e-t-c-h your attention span?”
Based on my research; I developed a step-by-step approach on how to pay attention – no matter what – and offered it for Wash DC’s Open University.
At the end of the program, several people came up to ask if I would speak for their conference or company.
That one workshop launched a rewarding career that has taken me around the world and given me blessed opportunities to do work I love that matters with people I enjoy and respect. It even resulted in a book called ConZentrate that’s been featured on Diane Rehm’s popular NPR show, taught at NASA and endorsed by Stephen Covey and Dr. Ed Hallowell ( a leading expert on A.D.D.)
What’s this got to do with you? Would you like to do work that matters to you and to others? Just ask yourself:
1. What do I find Intriguing? What interests me?
2. What is something that calls to me that I think is in Integrity because it would benefit people and add value for them?
3. What is a problem, need or opportunity that has caught my attention and myInstincts are telling me, ‘Somebody should DO something about that?”
4. What puts the light on In my eyes when I’m doing it?
Please understand …you’re as much a somebody as anybody. Why don’t you do something about it?
Choosing to pursue opportunities that are alignment with your Four I’s can catalyze a life of SerenDestiny where the light is on in your eyes.
From now on, remember, work we love is not out there waiting. It’s a result of us creating. Pay attention to what honors your Instincts, Interests and Integrity, and Lights on IN the eyes.
Then, get busy doing and pursuing what matters to you. What lights you up is your GIFT and gifting that back to the world by getting paid to teach it TO people or do it FOR people is one of the quickest paths to a meaningful career where you earn a good living doing work you love that matter.
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Sam Horn, Intrigue Expert, TEDx speaker, author of IDEApreneur, Tongue Fu! and Washington Post bestseller Got Your Attention? – feels fortunate to do work she loves, speaking for National Geographic, Boeing, Cisco, Capital One, writing books that add value, and helping consulting clients craft quality projects that scale their impact – for good. Want Sam to speak at your next conference? Email Cheri@IntrigueAgency.com for details.
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